Thank you kora for this wonderful analysis. Perfection was a character from an early age, perhaps to attract attention and affection? or boosting self-esteem?
I asked for similar cases in my family, indeed my father had alopecia areata at a certain age but quickly resolved. Could this be linked to the expression of a gene in me?
Acceptance is therefore the emotion that will make it possible to manage the internal conflicts between the desire to protect oneself “the longing for connection and the need for protection” (managebility) of the cycle of salutogenesis. I make a reconciliation with the situation and with these feelings.
As an adult, I left my city and my family to join my husband in another city (Separation) and at the same time I continued my higher education (responsibility, family conflict, lack of support from my parents) so effectively the feeling of loss or lack of contact.
One of the reasons to follow this training is to experience the effect of accepting the change of external image on self-healing, and helping other people to take charge of their health. Especially since I am from the medical field (I apologize for my English since I speak French).
Thank you very much