Hello Majda,
thank you for sharing this well-analysed case with several layers of conflict! As he has reached some resolution already and he is motivated to change some of his lifestyle and situation, I'm sure with your help he can heal his digestive troubles. The trigger of "women/girls in general" regarding his relationship he certainly wants to chunk down in order to release the exact trauma to let go, and to attract the suitable partner! Thymus tapping may help him with both self-devaluation and his aggression (the ((Endocrine - Thymus |thymus)) is the gland that teaches us to distinguish what's a real threat and what can be tolerated)