Thank you Tina!
The first example is quite meaningful still isn't it, warning you so you won't be taken advantage of. If you honor that, might there be a conscious way to make sure the guy doesn't invade your body?

The second example is interesting, it seems to me both sympathetic (arousal) and some dorsal vagal (paralysing) reactions are at play here? Like being scared of your own courage? Now you know where the limiting belief comes from, but do you also know where the courage to have this goal comes from?