Hi Kora , 
I’ve been working on a case of compulsive hair pulling, and after investigation with the client I found that the emotions where a mix of regret and guilt because of loss of chatting with someone the client loved and was planning to get married to him ! She was feeling guilty because she cut chatting with him without explaining for him why , and at the same time she doesn’t want to contact him again , but this separation caused her lots of guilt emotions! Blaming herself too much ! 
Here the compulsive hair pulling is a cerebral cortex constellation as we already discussed together, but the identity quest ( you mentioned before) is the guilt and blaming she’s doing to herself ? That made her lost and brought her some self devaluation ? Is that what’s identity quest is ? Because she has lots of thoughts if she’s good or may be bad in his eyes ! So plz help here what Identity quest is ? 

Territory anger was in her case this constant fear of separation because she said may be if we got married he’ll not be the right person and we’ll separate later ,because after further investigation her dad and mom relationship , she has doubts that they’re supposed to be separated because they’re totally not coping with each other ! So here her conflict originated from fear of separation of her parents ,is this right ? I’m still mixing territory anger or territorial conflicts plz help