Reflection, Reframing and Repatterning.

Hi,
There seems to be something in the conflict that he cannot eliminate.  Relationships - relationship to his mother - military service (male dominated environment and expression).  Could some sort of on-line support process on relationships be helpful to him to gain insight into his thinking upbringing and violence. I had a similar relationship environment with a client and he got help from Codependant's Anonymous and even met his wife through the program.  

Just a thought.  Stephanie