Hi Ousaima,
regarding point 11: she doesn't perceive them to be on the same eyelevel at that point, which is why she had that conflict in the first place (otherwise she wouldn't have cared whether she was disrespectful or not), just as in the META-meaning she found.
I think in such a case, grounding is a good exercise for the autonomic and social levels. She wants to stand her ground in a natural way without "fight energy".
Well done!