Thank you Stephanie,
your case and approach are a perfect example for the pillars of salutogenesis: to be able to understand and make a meaning out of one's life and symptoms, and to find the resources to tackle the challenges. Now you can use the understanding of tissue reactions and of conflict constellations to see the meaning and find the origins of the conflicts leading to your pattern.
I think you could pick the most obvious and relevant items that are directly related to weight gain for your documentation. For clarity, let's discriminate between your own constellation/s and those of your ancestors.
Appreciating and celebrating female values seem to be the core resolution, which you are working on making possible on all levels which is excellent!.